Repeating Stories (And Why it’s Actually a Good Thing)
Many parents find themselves reading the same book repeatedly and might wonder why. Some even worry that sticking with “Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You See?” for the umpteenth time might mean they’re not exposing their child to a variety of stories. But there are specific reasons why kids love hearing the same book over and over, even if it can drive parents a little batty!
As children’s understanding of the world evolves rapidly, having the consistency of a familiar story provides comfort. This is particularly true around age 3 when kids become acutely aware that the world keeps going even when they’re not part of it. This can be a frightening time, often accompanied by sleep troubles and fears of the dark. A predictable tale, like the one about the caterpillar’s journey to becoming a butterfly, offers a reassuring sense of control in a big, sometimes overwhelming world.
Kids also enjoy showing off their newfound knowledge. After hearing a book enough times, they start to memorize it and can “read” it back to their parents. This boosts their confidence and gives them a sense of accomplishment.
Moreover, children have a different relationship with repetition than adults do. While you might grow weary of reading the same story, kids often discover new details and connections each time they hear it. They’re constantly linking the story to their own lives in ways you might not expect.
So, the next time you settle in for another round of your child’s favorite book, consider adding a few twists. Ask them new questions about the story, use different voices to make it more engaging, or find out what they like best about it. You might be surprised by their insights!
These repeated readings often become cherished memories for children; they might even pass these beloved stories on to their kids someday.